Sorry to disappoint but there is no perfect, all encompassing sex guide for couples. Many guides are incomplete or do not give you the information you were looking for. Sex guides were created to help people better their sex lives. Before you get your guides, yes you should have more than one, there are three important things you need to understand, practice and be comfortable with in order to improve upon your sex life.
Communication
Time and time again you will run across this all important word and it really is that important. Proper communication skills are what allows you to let your partner know what feels good and what does not. You need to be able to tell your partner what interests you, what turns you on and what you are interested in trying. Without proper communication any sex guide for couples will turn into another paperweight.
Acceptance
Everyone really needs to learn to accept and love their bodies. This is crucial when it comes to having a fulfilling and happy sex life. If you are not happy and don't love your own body you will never be able to open up and let your partner love your body. Accept and be proud of who you are. Loving yourself first will allow you to let your partner fully love you as well.
Relaxation
Being relaxed around your partner will go a long way in broadening and improving your sex life. If you don't know how to relax then don't waste time with a sex guide for couples. Learn how to let go and don't worry about your sexual performance too much. By letting yourself relax and be in the moment your sexual performance will take care of itself. Women find it much easier to achieve orgasm if they are able to relax and enjoy the moment with their partner.
Communication, relaxation and acceptance are three important factors to master before any sex guide for couples will work. Once you are comfortable with these then feel free to experiment.
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