Lots of people think that it is necessary to have plenty of experience with sex to be really good at it. As an old saying goes, practice makes perfect, doesn't it? That is totally wrong and misleading. When you believe that and you don't have much experience with sex yet, you would get stressed out, thinking about whether you can satisfy your partner or make her have an orgasm.If you have lots of experiences with sex and you think you are a sex "expert", you may become overconfident. You believe that you are a stud and you can use the same technique over and over to satisfy your new partner just like you did to your previous girlfriends. Isn't it terrible to treat sex as if it were a cookie-cutter activity and think that you can satisfy your new girlfriend in the same way as your bunch of old ones? Sexual experience with a new partner should be totally new and different from any others you had in the past. In your body, there is a wide range of neural network where neurons move from various parts of your body to your brain and everybody has an unique configuration of the network. You and I might have the same physical experience but since we have different neural networks we will probably feel very differently. The basic structure of your brain may be the same as mine but there is always some kind of variance. When you think a particular activity is fun and enjoyable, other people may find the same activity so boring and stupid. This applies to sexual activities, too. People's reactions are totally different while and after having sex, and some people feel an orgasm in silence and others may get loud. Believe or not, some people may ever laugh or cry. People have different kinds of reactions to sexual experience but they are all normal. So, don't assume that your new girlfriend will react the same way as your previous ones and you really need to pay attention to her. She might like a different position, timing, pressure or places. It seems th at those "experienced" guys forget the basics. They also tend to skip important foreplay such as kissing and touching the areas other than sexual organs. I hear lots of women complain that their boyfriends don't kiss them as much after they started to have sex.If you are new to sex, don't waste your time on worrying about how to satisfy your partner. Not having experience is a good thing in that everything is so new and you would enjoy spending lots of time in foreplay which most experienced guys forget about. You shouldn't feel any pressure and you love every moment being with your partner. That is what good sex is all about, not just an orgasm. Experience is overrated.
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